2. “Not looking for someone to take care of them”- I don’t know the statistics on White men vs. Black men coming from more stable family structures…but from my personal experience most of the black men I’ve dating were constantly looking for a chick to care of them. Guess that explains why I’m no longer with them.

3. “Attend and graduate from college”- Well this I agree with…White men are more likely to be college educated than black men. I’m not sure if the same can be said for Latino men, since Latinos are attending and graduating college at a higher rate than before. Not to mention this new statistics about black males doing worse than bad in the education system is just horrible news.

4. “At least attempt to marry before making babies”- I disagree with this reason. Just because it’s noticed that White men don’t have children sprinkled all the over the place, doesn’t mean they didn’t impregnate a chick. There’s a little thing called abortion.

5. “They don’t glamourize ignorance”- The Madame Noire article states: “They may listen to rap music, but they are smart enough not to act it out. The “thug life” is not something to be aspired. White men have a firmer grasp on what really defines manhood.” But ignorance doesn’t just lie within rap music. There are other forms of ignorance that some white men adhere to. Not agreeing with this claim as it’s just too general of a statement.

6. “Financial planning and stability”- I totally agree with this one. White men or rather white culture are just more educated in spending their money. Rather than looking to “Floss” like most men in the black and latino community…white men are just far more interested in being wealthy than appearing wealthy. There’s a big difference.

7. “Have the ability to look beyond your past”- Another general statement. This has nothing to do with race but rather the individual itself. Claiming that white men have no problem turning a “hoe into a house wife” is just dead wrong. How do you explain these rappers wifin’ up “former” strippers? C’mon…this has nothing to do with race.

8. “Don’t take everything as a challenge to their masculinity”- I couldn’t disagree more. Whether black, white, latino…men who feel insecure or intimated by strong educated women (black, white, latina) has more to do with their own lack of self esteem and own personal weakness. Some men are just aren’t strong enough to handle a strong woman and that’s their loss. #REALTALK

Shout out to New Era (props to Ant!) for hooking us up with tickets to the Jay-Z/Eminem concert yesterday. The Jay-Z Blueprint III New Era hat was a hit, because everybody and their mama were rocking one.

Needless to say, the concert was STR8 DOPE! Two of the biggest names in Hip-Hop performed onstage in the heart of the Boogie Down Bronx at Yankee Stadium where Hip-Hop was founded!

J. Cole was one of the opening acts along with Miguel as his featuring guest . . . “All I Want is You” is my jam. B.O.B. was the other opening act. Eminem’s performance was nothing short of amazing and very emotional. Em brought out none other than 50 Cent, D12 and Dr.Dre, who yet again announced that his Detox album is dropping soon. Come on Dre, you’ve been saying that since the Chronic 2001, and your fans are growing impatient.

Funny sh*t, ya boy 50 Cent, despite all the money he has, STILL cannot dress to save his life. He and the G-Unit crew were onstage with glow-in-the-dark Gucci outfits, lol. Like really 50? I guess all his money goes to his jewelery. I can’t be too mad, because at least it wasn’t G-Unit attire. Back to the headliner, Jay-Z graced the stage with guests like Chris Martin, Drake, Nicki Minaj, Beyonce, and Kanye West! The crowd was so electrified, that Brooklyn could hear their screaming and shouts for Jigga. Better yet, I’m sure Weezy could hear the momentum from Rikers Island!

Check out XXL’s freshman Nipsey Hussle and Juelz Santana rock the stage at SOB’s in NYC last night. Nipsey performed “Let’s Talk Money”, while Juelz got the crowd extra amped with his verse off “Beamer, Benz or Bentley”. Stay tuned for full recap, pictures and EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW coming up!

Last night, ya gurls LexAve and J’More hit up SOB’s in NYC to check out the next big thing to come out of the West Coast since Snoop Dogg–Nipsey Hussle.

Last night, ya gurl J’More hit up Que (formerly of Day26) exclusive listening session at Recess Lounge in DC for his mixtape The Que Files dropping today. The event was hosted by radio/TV personality Jeannie Jones aka “The Kitty of the City” and DC’s No. 1 DJ, Quicksilva tackled the wheels of steel. Realtalk, Que definitely has a shot at going solo ’cause The Que Files has a lil’ bit of something for everyone from club bangers to a few baby makers. Not to mention, his boo Dawn makes her rapping debut on a track titled “All Night” . Who knew that Dawn could spit 16 bars? Anywhoo, I took a liking to a track titled “Well Overdue” in which Que goes in on his haters and puts his former group members on blast. I just couldn’t help but wonder if he’s calling out Willie on the track. He sings,

“And you trying to question my faithfulness/ What! /Well n*gga can you tell me this/ Why I’m on trial and you mothaf*ckas guilty/ Around these hoes/ You mothaf*ckas filthy/ Did you forget that you was married/ Did you forget that I knew everything”

DOWNLOAD/LISTEN–>> QUE- “THE QUE FILES”

Wifey Dawn was a no show, but she made sure to show her man some love via Twitter. Aww!

Being the granny that I am I chucked a deuce a lil’ after 10 pm. Overall the event was great and The Que Files is definitely worth a download.

Be on the look out for our exclusive interview with Que!