SPOTLIGHT: “BLACK PASSENGER, YELLOW CABS”

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  True story: I know two people who took a trip out there (separate incidents) and came back MARRIED. lol. The puddy must be good.

  by: PostingCleanup, Mar 18th at 3:35 am

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  I think there was the book titled “Yellow Cab”written by Japanese female autor who married with African- American in 20years ago.

  by: Minko, Mar 22nd at 8:42 am

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  Readers be very careful not to get carried off into this Stephens one sided analogy of Japan. Japan is not a sex paradise and it does have a model society in many respects.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 25th at 7:51 pm

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  Well tony, one of the great black Japanophiles with a massive identity crisis. it is time you put an end to your hypocracy, lauding me in private emails and bashing me public. telling me in private how you wish you had the gonads to write about the sexual buffet known as japan, and how you wish you possed the social skills to converse with women. And how, because you dont have the necessary social skills and confidence, you are attracted to the jukudos, the women in their 50s and 60s. hope youre enjoying yokohama. oh, and tell the readers how, after you read my accounts you were inspired to write about your own sexcapades with those old ladies in japan.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 25th at 10:33 pm

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  I have been reading Stefhen’s writings and I am very excited about this book. Though he might not see himself as a writer, his writings are very well written. They are so raw, honest, vulnerable… All that combined and more, it gives such a vivid picture in my mind. Also, I can strongly feel the emotions of the people and Stefhen. I am completely enthralled!!! I can say, you will not be able to stop reading. You will learn so much from his story, I have.

  by: Linda, Mar 26th at 7:28 am

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  Being a Japanese female, its pretty shocking to read this mans exploits. I would not be proud of telling everyone of having STD’s. I feel very sorry for this mans wife, who he cheated on. Secondly, i think he would also have to agree that most of the Koko jo’s, the girls who date black men are very unattractive. I am sure there were sluts he slept with, just like here in NYC there are tons of sluts. So its all the same. But personally, i knoe several women in Japan who would never date a black man or white man for that matter. So lets not stereotype the whole country.

  by: Yumi, Mar 26th at 7:49 am

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  I just wanted to add for the reader’s of this interview, especially females who may be turned off…that Stephen’s book is not only interesting in that we get a look into a sexual addict’s thoughts and feelings but he also gives the reader a LOT of historical AND contemporay context of Japenense society and behaviorial customs. I was prepared to be turned off when I first started reading his excerpts on MySpace but found myself throughtly entertained by his exploits and his endearing nature while learning a little something about the Japanese culture as well. BUT the most amazing part I learned is that, although Stefhen being a self-confessed sex addict and all, he is very much a lover of women and has a very gentle and sensitive manner in his treatment of them. I was not prepared for that but I was delighted to find that I REALLY LIKE this man!!

  by: Sherri, Mar 26th at 2:03 pm

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  au, yumi san, i stayed miles away from women who date black men or foreign men for that matter. Of the 60, most of them spoke little or no english and had never been with a foreigner before, much less one of african descent. and 5 of the 60 were virgins, including my wife. most were above average on the attractive scale. about ten, again including my wife, were extremely attractive. like i wrote yumi san, upon first arriving in japan and knowing no japanese, yes, i did uglies. however, once i acquired language in about 8 months, charity f#$%ing was over.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 26th at 3:12 pm

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  Stefan, I have been warning in you in both private and and public memos to stop posting this dribble. I know it feels good to get laid at 43, but that in no way means you should publish a book about it. You don’t speak for the 127 million Japanese people in Japan ! Most of your readership are extremely ignorant about Japan as a whole, lack knowledge on the inner working of this countries social structure and that’s a fact.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 26th at 3:35 pm

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  btw yumi san, dont pity my wife. thanks to her kind, loving, encouraging, supportive, loyal and dedicated husband, Shoko (thats her name in my book) developed enough confidence (which japanese women are grossly lacking) to realisize her capabilities and quit her stupid 7/11 job and move to the US where shes now getting a masters in Law (LLM). neither am i ashamed or elated about those STDs. in the event you are trying to shame me, please keep in mind that i contracted these STDs from Japanese women. many many times. you many not know this yumi san, but chlamydia is in epidemic proprotions in your country.

  but yes, one thing upon which we both agree: the cadillac chasers, the japanese girls with chocolate eyes, the ghetto japulous girls, are usually FUGLY. and finally, yumi sama, you may know several women in japan who would never date a black or white man, but after living here for 7 years, i can assure you that i and my other african american friends know many who would. some of them, again like my wife, didnt know she would be married to a black man.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 26th at 3:43 pm

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  This book will not only be damaging to African American all over the world, but to Japanese, too ! This book will have damaging effects on stereotypes that already perpetuate our society which is partly to blame for racism.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 26th at 3:46 pm

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  Yo. Stephen! How are you? They didn’t lock you up! That is cool. Ignore the bad comments. The Black Image is not destroyed, because our true image has not been revealed. That book is your life and it is true world-wide for many people. Racism was and is a tool to keep Black and White people in a certain fix in life, so those that are in control, can profit.

  Your book is good. Only those that don’t participate in life will feel it is bad. That is your life. Be happy and forget about the haters!

  What all you, Black people, need to do is get a passport and travel the world. The world outside the the United States loves us! Go experience it for yourselves.

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 26th at 4:07 pm

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  Yo, what’s up all.

  I just got finished reading the posts. Japan is unique, and then again, no difference form any other country. What Yumi and Stephen are saying is true. The whole thing is that you, Yumi, are not living in Japan. Why is that? I am most intrigue to hear your excuse. I am living here in Japan. I came her because my second wife, who is Japanese, had a business here. I knew nothing about Japan. This is the ignorance that is raised in America. I will say that I did and do know where Japan is on a map.

  You should be ashamed of yourself to call your sisters ugly. That is not Japanese or is it? I have known Stephen for about 7 or 8 years. We seem to run into each other every 2 to 3 years. Every time we met, he would give me a brief (30 minute) run down concerning his ventures, Sexual and Work. I will say that his stories are great. There is nothing wrong with sex. You, Stephen and I know very well that Japan is a boring place!
  There is nothing to do here, except make money and have intercourse.

  These women go years without sex. We, 3, know this. Your men here marry these women, have 2 children to shut their parents up and go cheat on their wifes. Snack, soaphouses and sex houses and the sex temples that are all over the country, as far as I am concern would indicate that being a slut is holy?

  Are you married to a Japanese man or dating one? I know many women that are in their 30’s that are still virgins. I know many women that are 40, 50 and 60 years old that are beautiful and have bodies that are kept in great shape and they are tight, if you know what I mean.

  I know a woman that said she had not had sex with her husband in 7 years. This was 5 years ago, so now it is going on 13, depending on the month.
  I am 43.

  I look 27 though.

  Tony A. “getting laid” is nothing at the age of 43. You are here in Japan. I know you see many men in there 60’s 70’s and 80’s rolling around in the Bentley’s, Ferrari’s, Lexus’ and other exotic cars with top notch women, young ones at that! “Getting laid” at that age is an accomplishment! If their penis are still working, why not be a slut!

  I have met over 2000 women in the first two years in Nagoya, Japan. The only reason that I did not have sex with the 2000 of them was because I was married. My wife was 13 years older than me. She was fine! She was 42, when we met. I thought she was 27. I didn’t even ask her her age. She told me later after we were well into our relationship.
  I didn’t care. A woman’s age is nothing especially, when most of these older women 40, 50 and some 60 are still cute and make these young girls, that are coming up all round looking (fat), look less attractive.

  I know many Japanese women that would not marry a non-Japanese man, simply because, these women love their culture and Japanese men are a very large part of the culture. It has nothing to do with race.

  Most of the Japanese men like most men are afraid of beautiful women. Low self-esteem is a world-wide sickness. For me, it was the opposite. on a scale form 1-10, women that were 6 and below would not talk to me. 7s and above flocked to me. I could never understand it. I am handsome, so-so and ugly all in one. I just let the beauty flow out. I guess, it must be true “birds of a feather flock together”.

  Japan is no playground. These women lack one thing and one thing only. Penis! These woman pay ¥¥¥¥¥¥¥ for it. This is every where though. In Japan, if you sex for free these women will eat you up.

  Like what PostingCleanUp wrote, it is true. The sad thing about it is that many of these women been around the block a few times. Then again, male of female, who would really take an inexperienced virgin or a pro. Teaching and enjoying the thrill are 2 very different things.

  He is writing the truth. That is all. It may not pertain to all, but none the less there are more than enough people, including myself, that will verify his writings.

  The Japanese culture is not in any danger. The Japanese image is not in any danger. Everyone here in Japan knows the truth. Life in Japan without its sexual diversities, would not be Japan, furthermore, Japanese. Remember, Japan is a country that relishes its beauty.

  Tell me, what is not beautiful about sex?

  The one thing about Japan that I love is what Stephen said, “Freedom”

  Japan has one rul and one rule only “Don’t disturb the ‘Enjoyment’”

  Last thing, these women are professional players, hustlers and pimps. Like Too Short say “Get in where you fit in”

  To all you Japanese females out there on the grind, “Take those fools’ money, hearts and minds!”

  I ain’t no hater!

  I

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 26th at 5:50 pm

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  Peace,
  Stephen your detractors are a testament to many of the things you’ve stated in the excerpts I’ve read. I have your book in mind as a purchase, and I’m glad you’re doing well!

  by: Dread Mighty Sine, Mar 26th at 6:13 pm

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  Well first off, I am working for a Japanese Multinational in NYC. I will be returning back soon. I thikn another issue is that the eye of beauty is very different from Japanese and foreigners. The women you call 10’s are certainly not 10’s in my book. Miss universe now is Japanese, but you can ask any japanese person and they will tell you that she is not cute. Westerners seem to love her, i even met her here in NYC.

  In any event, maybe someone should write a book about the black sluts in the US? We all know there are plenty of them. But the point is the stereotyping, saying that Japanese women are just spreading their legs for foreign men is just absurd. The fact that you tricked some innocent girl by learning japanese and then having sex, how does that make you a man. Hopefully, in the future you will have a daughter and she will be tricked and abused, how would that make you feel?

  I dont think you have done something astonishing here, you slept with some slutty girls and now you want us to read your book. I just dont think its something to be proud about. I wonder how the “60″ girls feel right about now? Or did you even tell them?

  by: Yumi, Mar 27th at 12:07 am

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  Yumi san, i hear pain from hurt feeling, hence your lashing out. you have no idea what the women with whom ive slept look like. and fyi, my book is not just about sex in japan, it also sheds light on the low socio-economic status of women in danson jyohi (male chauvinist) japan. women here have the lowest socio-polical and economic status in the industrialized and in some of the developing world. when you return to japan from the freedom of america, you may well have to serve tea if youre working for a japanese firm. most japanese women like you, including my wife, abhor and detest the idea of returning to their country to live, after experiencing the opportunities for women in the west. my wife is one of the lucky few who is able to stay in the US and pursue her potential as opposed to working at some stupid arbaito (part-time job) in japan.

  i have a daughter, shes 21 years old. she cant be tricked and abused, because i have been empowering her from birth. in fact i wish to have nothing but daughters so that i can empower them. my daughter, whose cd you may soon be purchasing (and you can most certainly find her on myspace) is an empowered 21 year old, as opposed to the typical diffident, spineless and unempowered japanese woman. did your male chauvinist father empower you? no, dont think so. did your emotionally abusive schools empower you? no, dont think so. im pretty sure they may have pushed you to self hate and to the brink of suicide. my book is about the sociogenic psychological disorders of japan, decorated under the auspices of culture. its not just about rampant copulation with japanese women. it explains the social dynamics behind why the western male, black or white, is a sex god in jpan.

  if you think your feelings are hurt now only after reading 50 pages, wait til you read the remaiding 330 pages. you best not have read the book in japan, it may send you in shock, and the state of psychotherapy in japan is worse than the quagmire hounding medical delivery in japan. so you wont be able to get any psychological help.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 27th at 4:42 am

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  Stephen, you see, you only make your own race look bad when you put down other races and cultures. First you say ” Japan is a beautiful country” and then you immediately attack it with your limited analytical skills thinking that you are impressing people. Like I said before, most of your readership are ignorant about what really goes on here in Japan. Hell, many of them have never travelled outside of the U.S.A. in the whole lives. You are disgracing your own race.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 27th at 5:36 am

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  Duncan,

  Yumi has every right to condemn her own sisters just like I have every right to condemn my own brothers for commiting blatant crimes of ignorance in a foreign country. Yumi has every right to tell Stephen that he’s full of Sh&$%T and doesn’t know what he’s talking about. I have argued against this man many times and have debunked him on many occassions and it’s not over either. The Chlamidia claim is also absurd as he’s only slept with sluts and not real women. Japan truly is an ideal country.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 27th at 5:40 am

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  Looking forward to the book man, can’t wait till it drops. I’m definitely going to own a copy. Black Passenger just has the best research about Japan’s societal problems.

  Stephen will be the first one to tell you that sexing mad chicks is cool, but the negatives outweigh the positives after a while. That is why son is getting married soon. Congrats on that too bro. This book is like a manual that helps bros from getting caught up in the nonsense out there.

  Ralph is right too man. Pussy at any age is pussy. I’m in my 20’s, but I’m still gonna rock out with my cock out as long as I can.

  Yumi, stop hating. You know the deal. That is why you are out in NYC right now speaking fluent English. When you go back to Japan, you ain’t getting no warm welcomes. Stephen and Ralph are nice to you and won’t blow up your spot, but I will. I live in NYC and I know what Japanese girls are up too out here…….

  by: R.O., Mar 27th at 8:38 am

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  Yumi, Japanese people are Black , too. You should not use that word, so loosely. The is a saying in Japan that say,”In order for a samurai to be brave, he must have some Black blood in him.”

  You talk as though Japanese men are so faithful and a not evil to their own women. You seem to make yourself out to be a hero or protector of these Japanese women. Least you forget, the women here are full of games. They just marry for security. The men work all day while the wives, sleep around with whomever. The “whomever” are Japanese men.

  There is no way you can trick someone into having sex. It is all about creating or arousing the emotions of a woman to do those things. You are forgetting that woman are hornier that men, anyway. This is a fact or at least verified in some way be their conversations. i know. I have listened to many women’s conversations.

  Why would you say that someone should write a book about Black sluts? Everyone knows that in every ethnicity sluts are plenty. Some are open and others are not.

  Seem to forget that Japan culture teaches their women that only Japanese men are good for them. Japanese men don’t follow those rules. I understand where you may be coming from, but you should not let what someone writes concerning their lives effect you.

  Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but when it comes to sex beauty has nothing to do with thrills and excitement that a man or woman brings to the bed. Looks can go. Form my experience the best sex does not come from beautiful women. WHY? These men in the world are to scared to talk to the because of the beauty of these women frightens them.

  I am curious to see what you look like.

  Oh, another thing about 10’s. I am talking about beauty from a man’s point of view. If you a lesbian, it is cool. Most straight women do not judge other women with the fairness that straight men judge other men. We that live here in Japan know very well, that Japanese men prefer foreign women to Japanese one,

  We all know that each culture looks at beauty in different ways for different reasons. I was called ugly all my life. Only those that knew that they were beautiful always called me handsome or said that my skin was beautiful. Those that had no confidence in their own judgment of themselves called me other things.

  You seem to want to portray yourself as someone of intelligence or you are embarrassed about the action of strangers that don’t care about you. Embarrassed be relation? If you have a point to make you should make it.

  There is a way to make Stephen feel bad about what he wrote. You are going about it the wrong way. We are all human. We all want that thrill of excitement. Love or passion for 15 minutes ( which I here form Japanese girls, that Japanese men last no longer 1,2,3) is better that years without it.

  His book will cause cause some people to take a second look at things. I think it will be a way to really open up Japan’s society as far as the letting people see into it. Trust me, live in Japan sexually is not the best. Why? Like you said “the eye”.

  I read a little about what he wrote, I hope that he touched on the actual skills that his partners had. Don’t be so shocked about the numbers. I have a friend who is Japanese, that lives in Nagoya. He sexed a different woman everyday, Japanese and foreigners. That is 265 different women a year. Being that he was young, I am sure there were days when he sexed 2 or 3 in a day. This is normal in Japan. Japanese women love sex! This is true and you cannot deny that.

  You may be beyond the age of pursuing happiness, I have no idea what age that my be, but there is no way you can convince anyone that these women had sex with him unwillingly. There is no way, unless he rapped them. I hope not though. Japanese men rap Japanese women and don’t get in trouble. If they do it never gets on the news like the way it does when the military are accused of the same thing.
  There are so many things that are wrong, bad, disgraceful things going on in Japan that are done by your own people. You even discriminate against you own, There is a group of people out here that were discriminated so bad that they don’t have to pay taxes. You know what I am talking about.

  let’s not forget about the women that rap foreign men. How? They threaten the men into having sex with them or doing favors. If the men, especially Black, refuses they threaten to go to the police and cry “Rap”. They tell Black men that the police will believe them because they are Japanese and who will the police believe me of a “nigger”. You know this is true.

  Just chill out!l You cannot win this fight.

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 27th at 10:16 am

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  Yumi doesn’t have to listen to you tell her anything that she doesn’t already know. Point is quite simple, you wouldn’t like it if someone criticized our people for our ignorance ! Four years ago Bill Cosby spoke out against the young African Americans of today, and you know what ? He was verbally attacked by the African American community because he scorned his own poeple ! How do you think Yumi feels when you blacks attack and explose her culture for its vulnerabilites.

  As a race, we have major major problems, problems we haven’t even begin to solve. Look at how stupid Stefan sounds….This Jamaican born reject living over in Japan is criticizing this country for its imperfection. Why can’t he criticize is own crime ridden and filthy country. You have no message and the stuff you are publishing is not reflective of modern day Japanese society. It is wholly innaccurate !

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 27th at 4:34 pm

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  T.A.

  That is the point. You have no right to judge anything that you know nothing about. If you are living in Japan, then you know the truth. I am not going there with you. You are free to feel how you want, but the truth is the facts. Facts don’t lie. Japan is beautiful because the Earth is beautiful. The society is very special, too.

  But, the fact remains the same all over. People want to enjoy the full nature of what it means to be human and be free. A person that loves sex is not a slut. The person who is not expose or cannot get that type of happiness is a slut in their miseries. Sex is good.

  Even Jesus was being constantly kissed by Mary. is he a slut? Is she a slut? If she was and being that Jesus was suppose the be God on the flesh, to me, it didn’t seem to be a big deal to him?

  God said “be frutitful and multiply!”

  Have you thought the fact that men can give birth everyday and all day, while women can only nurture only one sperm, not counting twins and the such per nine months until it can survive on its own.

  Please, men birth the sperm in to the world. The women provide the nutrients. What do you think you spinal cord is?

  Yumi, I am not on your case. I am just saying, you can only speak for yourself. If you speak for others, you need to do it in a respectful way.

  Black grandmothers teach us that ugly in an action. Those ugly women that you talk about just need to eat properly and their skin on their face will clear up. If you are talking about the Japanese women that look white, black, Korean, Chinese and all, then you need to go to a doctor. The first people that inhabited these islands are the true Japanese.

  Just because a woman in Japan has sex with a foreigner, doesn’t make her evil. You have to remember you are no more Japanese than there. When you return like R.O.said, what makes you think you will not mess around. You know the saying in Japan. “A Japanese woman cannot say ‘no’”. Explain this to me.

  For those that don’t know, Japan is littered with sex hotels. Many of them would make some of these Luxury hotel rooms look bad. Every Friday and Saturday night they are full. People in Japan love to sex.

  R.O. is right women that travel out of Japan will sex at every opportunity that they can. Why? Because, the chances of them having sex once a month is rare.

  What about the sex and oral places that are here. These places are “Japanese only”. All I am saying is that you have been in America too long or you are lying. Which is it?

  You know that it is easier to get a Japanese girl in bed that it is to get them to shake a man’s hand. This is not a bad thing. It just shows how much these women are not sluts. They do not go around touchng or allow themselves to be touched by anyone.

  I can understand your feelings, but as long as they are enjoying themselves what is wrong with that?

  You have no right to judge anyone unless you have walked a thousand miles in their shoes.

  Please be more intelligent concerning your attacks. As of know you are creating no friends.
  You should be luck that Stephen or anyone else hasn’t written about the real embarrassing things that happens in Japan.

  T.A. you need to chill. I am sure you are not so tough in person. Most outsiders in Japan are weak. Are you one of them. Why do you think, so many black men are in graves? Because of a woman! Women can take care of themselves. They don’t need you.

  But, I just think you need to be heard or you are a playboy that caters to these women for their money. That is fine, too. Don’t be a hater!

  God made penises and vaginas to be used. There are not rules to the number of people you can have sex with.

  60 women in 8 years is not feat. having sex with 7 women a year in, especially in Japan, is a low number.

  I would have said 156 a year. That is one different woman on Friday, Saturday and Sunday times 52 weeks in a year time 8, I think that is how long I have known him, adds up to 1248 women. That is impressive and then I would see some validity in your claim,

  However, you know loose these woman are here. They will open their legs every chance they get, because the chances of them getting sexually satisfied is far and in between. This is the fault of the culture of your country. Sex is a sport in Japan.

  Stephen was either a nice person with strong convictions or he was a little slow in the math department.

  No offense, Stephen it is all love. You know how I talk. He really was taking it easy.
  As for me, I turned down about 80% of the women that approached me, played dumb with the other 15% and sexes the the oceans out of the remainder of them.

  I, for some reason, can’t sleep wit any woman. Truthfully. unless you get a woman that has some experience, sex in Japan can be compared to taking a bath. If you want any thing movement you have to do it.

  What makes the women in Japan, sexually captivated is that they will let you do anything you want to them and they will do anything you want to. Then again, it is just something they do to trap these fools into marrying them. Then the truth is unveiled, never to the husband. These woman love sex and the country promotes it.

  This book will hit Japan and you will be famous. You just have to keep in mind how to mix the Japanese into your book and you will be a billionaire in a year. Everyone wants to read about the mythical big penis Black man and the little helpless tight lipped vagina woman getting it on.

  Who wouldn’t buy such a book. Even Shakespeare wrote about a Black man and a white woman. “Othello”

  The both of you need to write a book on the good things about Japan.

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 27th at 5:39 pm

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  yo ralph, much love dude. coming straight from a brother who’s been living here in japan for over a decade. thats what im talking about, 60 women in 7 years in japan aint shit. it took mammoth effort to pull myself away from the shit, turn down pussy, barricade myself in my apartment for two years to write this book. and even so, punaunie was sneaking in through my key hole. 60 is nothing. among my boys, my experiences are the fewest and tamest in this country. amoung our cell phone pictures and videos, mine are G rated compared to my boys’ XXXXX shit. 60 aint shit. one a my boys, this white dude from seattle, does 40 a year, and hes been living here for 17 years. hes now conducting how to seminars to japanese men.

  but let the haters hate. yumi i can understand. its her culture and this hurts her feelings. i can totally understand that. buy yumi, you need to read the enitire book, its also a memoir. its an erotic, ethnographic memoir. and as such i talk about the gross shortcomings of crime infested jamaica, where i grew up. but tony, who was geeky enough to confess his worship and envy for me and his sexual inadequecies in private, is steeped in an identity crisis.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 28th at 12:11 am

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  YUMI SAN, as a japanese, your reaction is exactly the reaction i predicted in the interview. your calling your fellow japanese sluts and refering to black women as sluts. remember, i said that japan is a low emotional quotient society, hence japanese people too have low EQs and are very much like children, as evidenced by childish lashing out.

  and so you know, it takes an enormous amount of effort to get in bed with a black woman. a man has to jump through nuff bumbuclaut hoops to get a black woman in bed. i can assure you, i have never had sex with a black woman without knowing her name and or taking her on a date. never have i had sex with a black woman after meeting her on the train and emailing her a couple times then inviting her over for dinner.

  the point is, japan views sex differently. japan is not bounded by the shame from sex, which is a powerful tenet in judeo-christian societies. the christian population here is .08%. i could have never done the same thing in korea, where the christian population is 25% and where they value virginity. all these dynamics are explored in my book.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 28th at 12:47 am

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  Great interview, stefhen.

  It is only one of the society in the world which has a unique character but how it’s been exposed by the way you did through your sexual experience is giving a great impact to people out there, and I won’t deny that.

  Myself, being Japanese woman, who has grown up in the society and have been “controlled” by it, I don’t have any objection.
  But you all should know that all Japanese women are so pleased to spread their legs to anyone.
  Some might have decided to move to Japan. Good luck for them.

  Including myself, I know many people that have been to overseas and come back to our coungry complaining why it is the way it is here in Japan, especially for women.

  Society – invisible power.
  I felt I was trapped in the box called “society”. But the sad thing is that if you are settled in the box for long enough, even if you are complaining, you’ll get used to it and think that it is very normal and that’s where you should belong to.

  Well, the society is a society and you cannot change it over night. So all we can do is each of us should know where we are standing and where we are heading in our lives.
  That’s one of the things he taught me….or shout at me..

  I think what he’s saying and how he observes Japanese society or a “habit” of Japanese women has a point. But I haven’t read the whole book and am not sure if I ever will. Maybe I will when I’m ready.

  And one last thing is that I’m just glad that I am not included in the book like other women, moreover, I fell in love with him. We met on the train and not before long, we became attached to each other and we couldn’t be apart.

  He gave me a light of hope which I’ve almost given up long time ago.

  As you can see from the book and comments, many(especially women) might think that I’m crazy falling in love with this sex addict but I don’t care what other people think.
  He has a strong influence and that could be his gift.
  I appreciate for having met him even though we’ve been through a tough time together.

  I still love him and he will be remembered the rest of my life and when I have a little xyon again.
  Thank you.

  by: little xyon, Mar 28th at 8:53 am

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  Xyon, im speechless, i am literally at a loss for words. please know that this book is dedicated to xyon.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 28th at 2:41 pm

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  Stefhen, who is xyon? Fill me in. I know why he attracts the women! It is simple. I will not say what it is, though. I don’t do it. I like to go about things the hard way. For me, easy come, easy go is real. Yes, I am a fool, but I am not alone!

  I am enjoying my life!

  Yo, Stefhen, I took that new ISF out for a long test drive. It was nice! Oh, you should write another book about Japan. “Married Japanese Couples and infidelity” The book should be totally in the words of the couples. This would sell in Japan like crazy! If you do don’t for get about our “Three Black Passenger’s business deal”

  Peace, I will be in Osaka, tomorrow.

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 28th at 4:16 pm

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  Let me correct it.
  NOT all Japanese women are spreading legs for men…!!!!!!!!
  There are women like that for sure, but you can find them in any country, not only Japan. So you don’t have to make a fuss about it.
  It is just the way it is and it is one of the aspect that Japanese society has been built.

  Our Xyon will be with me the rest of my life.

  by: little xyon, Mar 28th at 4:27 pm

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  I understand you are offensive and feel superior to other people by looking down on them, and I understand that’s because of the traumas you’ve got when you were young. But you are not a child anymore, so it’s about time you learn how to take other people’s opinions instead of taunting them. Tony is right, you have no consideration for the people it will affect, and your self-centeredness hurts lots of people. You should stop feeling good about it. Your comments toward Tony are just a threat.

  by: Chris, Mar 28th at 10:13 pm

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  The point is quit simple, Japan, even with all of its imperfections, is still the best country to live in ! There is no perfect society. Even with the incipient crime wave, Japan is still the safest country on earth. I am safer here in Japan than in my own native U.S.A. In any society, you have to give up something in order to acheive something. In the U.S.A, you have too much personal freedom and less uniformity to laws and less standards of ethics…i.e. give people too much freedom and they become less responsible for their own actions. In Japan, social freedom is highly scrutinized, and therefore every one of its citizens adhere to unspoken social rules and norms. End result, a peasceful and law abiding society; less crime. People know how to conduct themselves in a proper manner. In the West people completely disregard these social rules.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 29th at 2:31 am

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  Xyon, if you live in a society you are controlled to a certain extent no matter where you live. Japan prides itself as a country with high morals and standards and most of all , uniformity. This is the appeal that Japan has all over the world, not manga and loose whores who spread their legs for every “Tom, Dick, and Harry.” This is something you can be proud of as a Japanese ! Never give that up because you were charmed by some guy who gets his limited knowledge on Japan from a bunch of loose country girls in Hyogo. Stefan hasn’t travelled enough to know enough to write on Japan, at all.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 29th at 2:41 am

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  TONY ALEXANDER, just incase youre sufferinf from amnesia i am reminding you of this email you sent me on myspace on august 23rd 07.

  “hey, my name is tony and i live in Yokohama. man, im really enjoying your exploits in japan, you are living my dream. but unfortunately I’m not good in the sack. I have a few older ladies, married or divorced but thats about it. keep up the good work.”

  tony sama, does that email ring a bell. then i looked at your pic on myspace and thought ATARIMAI!

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 30th at 1:35 am

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  Look tony sama, if japan were so perfect, your ghetto japulous exwife, ten years your senior would not have left you and ran off and disappear with your son, to marry another Negro. had your beloved country been perfect, you wouldnt be experiencing the typical divorce in japan: where the woman abducts the child and disappears, all because she has no critical thinking and problem solving skills.

  ok, i tell you what, in preparation for my book, EVERYONE should read this book which was published last july.

  GOODBYE MADAME BUTTERFLY. SEX, MARRIAGE AND THE MODERN JAPANESE WOMAN. by sumie kawakami. published by chin music press.

  tony sama, until you read that book, SHUT TF UP. and by the time you done reading it, BLACK PASSENGER YELLOW CABS will be published. and dont worry, i will sign your copy.

  go find your son

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 30th at 1:47 am

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  Tony, I’ve been reading your comments here as well as on myspace. You also have a point and I understand what you’re trying to tell Stefhen. I am not on either your side or his.
  Like Chris said, yes, he’s been hurting many people. I told him that someday, he has to compensate for those people he’s hurt.

  I am of course proud of being Japanese and glad to be one. That’s because I’ve lived in overseas and look at Japan from a distance. You’ll find some good and not good part about it once you’re away. You may not understand what I’m trying to say but if you once tasted the freedom, it’s hard to let it go and I felt some kind of chain around my neck. Something was pushing me down in the box. After a while, I realized it was “society”.
  I will be leaving Japan sooner or later but I don’t feel anything around my neck anymore because I learned what it is.
  That’s why I said that I appreciate for having met him.
  I am not losing anything because I was “charmed” by this man. I am my being proud of Japanese and nothing can change that. I don’t understand what you mean by “I was charmed”…it doesn’t sound nice to me.
  But I will not make any commens on that part because it has nothing to do with any of you, only between him and me.
  You might think that I am a poor victim who has been totally mind-controlled by this man, but it’s ok. I don’t care.
  I know where I stand.

  by: little xyon, Mar 30th at 11:07 am

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  Stefhen, you are funny guy. No way have you lived in Japan that long when your Japanese level is so low. You dont even know the basic words. If you want people to admit your intelligence, you have to prove it, you know. You cant use your diploma as a weapon when you are not able to do anything with using it. Its just a paper.
  Oh, and the informations you are giving here about Japan is biased and too old. I recognize your attempt, but those proved this is just your “make-believe world”.

  by: ???, Mar 30th at 11:19 am

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  Stefhen, you are funny guy. No way have you lived in Japan that long when your Japanese level is so low. You dont even know the basic words. If you want people to admit your intelligence, you have to prove it, you know. You cant use your diploma as a weapon when you are not able to do anything with using it. Its just a paper.
  Oh, and the informations you are giving here about Japan is biased and too old. I recognize your attempt, but those proved this is just your “make-believe world”.

  by: ???, Mar 30th at 11:22 am

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  Stefhen although I don’t feel good about the details of your book as a Japanese woman. I know the things that you write about are true being that I have been a social worker for over 12 years. I think that most foreign men know and experience this even though some will try to protect us. You wrote about the realities of my country and I am ashamed but I hope it helps us to change.

  by: Narumi, Mar 30th at 11:52 am

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  Tony, why is Japan the safest country in the world to live in? Last I heard it was Singapore. Truthfully, it should be your place of residence. Mine is.
  Stefhen’s book talks about his life. None of those women’s true names are in that book. He could even be lying. I can’t believe what he wrote because of what my sexual experiences have been in Japan. His is nothing. I laughed at his story. There is one that he talks about doing his Japanese teacher. I, perfectly, can identify with the teacher’s puzzlement. I have been forced into sexual activities by my female students. I am All
  About The Money (AATM) this is my nickname. I don’t want to lose business, because of sex. Luckly, those women were mature. One of them asked me to take her driving in my Black Lexus GS350. We were about 10 minutes into the drive on the way back. She asked me to say the letter r’s phonics sound. I did. Do you know the phonetic sound? If you say it correctly letter, your lips will form a kissing shape. When I did it, she came over the center storage case in my Lex and kissed me. I was surprised. So, what did I do? I tested her. While I was driving with one hand (the right one) I took off all of her clothes, well what little she was wearing – a summer dress, white and black leopard skinned thong and matching bra. We drove like that, while she gave me directions to a parking lot at Rinku Town’s Beach next to Kansai Airport. We parked. Then she crossed over onto me and started grinding. I told her that I was expensive. She stopped looked at me and the rest of the story is non of your damn business. She is 40 years old. She has a nice slender-tanned body. Her breast were not, so big but there is a new study out that says women with smaller breasts feel much more sensitivity when caressed, than women with large breasts. She is divorce and rich! Is she a slut? No! She is a woman that takes care of her business on and off the court.

  I have plenty of those stories from the Phillipines, Hawaii, America, Thai and Japan. My stories are XXX and some other nasty ass shit in the mix.

  Japan’s sex industry is probably second to Toyota. I am not talding about the sexual intercourse part. Just the snack (pay 60 bucks) to talk to a girl to getting your penis or clit sucked on (no SEX). It is profit. More that that sex really aids in the stress management in our lives. If you can enjoy mutual sex and it becomes hot and grimmy, by all means do it. If you can write a book and make a million or two, why not? The only ones that will complain are the ones who will never enjoy it to as it should be – naturally.

  Fucking haters, go back and stay in America, Tony and Yumi, respectively!

  If this book is a best seller, all those Japnaese girls will become idols in Japan. Just think about the revenue that will be created.

  Just like T.I said “Don’t let poor ass, niggas (bitches ) ride!”

  Chris, I am thinking that you are white. You people are the most arrogant self-centered people on the Earth. How can someone talking about a fact be self-centered? His sexual adventures are normal at best. He writes about the same thing we all should be able to do. How is haveing mutual sex looking down in them. Oh, I understand, you don’t understand the language he is using. I guess, when Micheal Jackson song “Bad” is played and you hear it, you think of him as criminal that should be locked up forever!

  The word “slut” is a respectful word like the word “bitch and nigga” is today. You need qualifications and prerequisites to be deemed.

  Slut – a woman or man that engages in simple process or process(s) of touching their partners with the intention and goal of completely satisfying their partner(s) wishes and is, fully, knowing that they will enjoy the same process or process(s).

  The word “slut” is used because, the word “slut” has established itself in the English language as person who is a sex GURU!

  Who do you think knows how to sexually satisfy a person, a virgin or a someone that has lots of experience?

  Fool! The one that studies and do the research! Virgin or not!

  Virgin – male or female that hasn’t found a slut, yet. hahahaha.

  No Joke.

  What does New York Times hs to say about it? It is not about disrespecting. It is only a story and truthfully, the world already know about Japan and its sexual ideology. You all are all, so, late.

  Oh, in that Austin Power’s movie, What were the names written on the backs of those two Japanese girls? Did any of you laugh or protest it. It was seen world-wide. I did not hear a peep.

  But, don’t let me deter your comments. Keep them coming. You never know you may convince one of those women that he was with to write a book, too.

  Yo, Stephen I will load up that video or me in that new Lexus ISF. Sorry, that I couldn’t roll out to Kobe.

  LIKE I SAID. THE WORLD KNOWS ABOUT JAPAN AND IT SEXUAL CONDUCTS. Does anyone knows, why the organs are blocked out in Asia. Is is because their skin is white and their vaginas and penises are black (not the same color as the rest of their bodies) or is a religious thing?

  No offense. My skin has gotten lighter, since I have moved here. Thank God, my dick hasn’t!

  Some of you act so “gay”. No offense to any homo-sexual people out there.

  Gay- acting so innocent, when you know, damn well, you were stroking or fingering it, while you were reading some of his passages.

  I felt like a thug! when I read it. Thanks Stefhen, compared to what you wrote I am King Digaling!

  I use to use that nickname when I came to Wakayama, Stefhen. I let them, women in that bar call me that for about five minutes. I was innocent, not! at that time. It is not my fault they don’t understand English after some many years studying it. Plus, I have my African-American customs, good and bad. That was one of my joking ones.

  Try it!

  Someone, please let me know.

  Oh, He got his info form the internet. http://www.nipponidols.com/

  This is debasing Japan. Look! No niggas!

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 30th at 11:54 am

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  Im not a racist, and Ive always hated the racists, but now I understant why your race is discriminated. You guys have no self-control nor moral. You are NOT human beings. You are lower than pigs.

  by: Leo, Mar 30th at 9:57 pm

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  Duncan I hear you, but my argument isn’t directed towards you. Yes, you have some juicy sex stories. I have some good ones too, but I don’t feel they should be publicized, why ? Because it degrades the race a bit. (“ wow, this black man slept with so many J-women in a car, how lewd and disrespectful”).

  Stefen, the insults and slanders don’t bother me, because I am satisfied sexually. This is true ! Besides, nobody cares about the dirt you kick in my face, they are only interested in your sexploits.

  Onxy,

  I understand the love you have for Stefan is real, so that’s between you and him. But, let me ask you…where is your dignity and pride as a Japanese ? Don’t you realize that this man is slanderous to your people ? Japanese will be ashamed of you once they see you as his possession ! You are/were his sex toy and everybody will know it, regardless of whether or not it’s true. You are shaming your own people.

  If Japan has social problems, then let the Japanese people solve their own social problems themselves, not some third world Jamaican who knows very little about Japan. No SOCIETY ON EARTH IS PERFECT !!! This is a fantastic country to live in.

  Everybody in Japanese society has a role to play; the husband is the provider and the woman generally looks after the household, that’s the way it has always been for centuries. This is good, we call it team work. In the U.S. both the mother and father work in order to earn an income while some nanny is left to raise their children, or no one at all. This almost always spells disaster for the family nucleus in terms of communication. People become caught up in their careers and have very little time for family.

  When you stop being so materialistic and selfish and self-centered and spoiled you will learn that the Japanese way is best. The problem with you is that you’ve become too westernized thanks in part to western trends in America. Marriage and family is all about self sacrifice !! You sacrifice your life for the good of the family…What’s wrong with that ? What’s wrong with you ?

  Since 1950, Japanese women have had the same Equal Rights as Japanese men, as spelled out in their Constitution which was signed into law by Emperor Akihito himself. Your problem is that you don’t know this, and you lack understanding about your own history. So your first problem is ignorance, once you get cured of that and then you can mature a little.

  The fact is is that, amongst thousands of unhappy Japanese women, there are millions of Japanese women who are happily married to their husbands and this is the part of the book that Stefan fails to recognized. There are millions of Japanese women who are happy being good mothers and good wives and who care very little about equal rights, laws, and constitutions. Many of them believe in the old way and would rather keep things the way they are for the sake of the family.

  But you, you want to mixed Western values with Eastern values because you can’t cope with the rigors of being a responsible and mature Japanese adult. Everybody has to sacrifice for the greater good of society and family rather they like it or not. You are not American. You are a Japanese with a long and proud history. Don’t shame your mother !

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 30th at 9:58 pm

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  This is a very funny running conversation, you guys. But really, is it that big a deal that a guy goes to Japan, has lots of sex, puts real thought into the motivations and emotions behind what he saw, and wrote about it?

  If he’s wrong, at least he came by his mistakes honestly. Even if he puts things in a way that sounds like he’s belittling Japanese culture, I have been guilty of the same. But I have figured out the reason why. You only get worked up over something like this when it really disappoints you, and you only get really disappointed by something that you love. I think that Stefhen really does love Japan and Japanese girls and that what comes across as complaints and taunts is actually an inner frustration over how good it could be for everybody if people were just given a bit more psychological breathing space in this country.

  I mean, come on. No place is perfect, but when was the last time you heard of a man going outside and stabbing six people in broad daylight, one day after calling the cops and telling them that he was going to do it, just because he “wanted to know what it was like to kill somebody?”

  Happened two weeks ago here. And sadly, that kind of thing is an all-too-common response to a culture that can be so demanding and unforgiving that young people will shut themselves into their rooms for years, living in a fantasy world of manga, porn and video games rather than venture outside and deal with it directly.

  Japan is a good place. But it is currently suffering from slow psychological rot from the inside. Stefhen deserves credit for having the balls to bring it out in the open instead of ignoring it out of fear.

  by: Naoki, Mar 31st at 3:18 am

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  Naoki,

  You are WACK ! What are you talking about ? You have no idea what you are talking about. This is Japan and crime happens, so what, no big deal ! Isolated incidents in crime is not reflective of the culture, it’s because of spoiled and weak minded passive little men who don’t know anything ! Stefan deserves no credit at all for this book. Why can’t we talk about his native country Jamaica !? You are another funny Japanese with mind problems.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 31st at 3:33 pm

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  Tony, Tony, Tony! I am Black. I am not guy. Love for Stefhen. He is a cool person. That is all. Do you know what the names in “red” are in red for. They are links. You need to read my post again. Don’t reply to something that you just skim through. I am Black. Leo, Black people are the civilizers of the world. Former President Clinton got his dick sucked in the White House. How low is that? You should not criticize animals. You are one, too. You have know idea what this would would have been without Blacks. There would not have. All the porn that is on the net these days and I am guessing that you are white, your people are all over the net selling sex.

  I disagree with your comment. One person writes a book about his sex life and all of you get up set. He is not the first. Maybe, for you that do not read like your ignorance shows, you should do more studies on it. Do you know how many Japanese woman would rather be with there own men? I would hope 100%. The fact is that we are all humans. We are all compatible with each other, although I have seen many white and Asian women having sex with animals. I haven’t seen Black women do that, but I am sure there are. What are all of your careers? I am just an English teacher. All of the back and forth is not doing anything. If you want to really put a dent in Stefhen’s book. Do the right thing. All of you that are married to a Japanese national should get a divorce and help that woman or man find and marry another Japanese National. This is doing the right thing. If your kids ask why did you and mommy get divorced, you can be a real hero and say. It is better that your mom or dad is married to a Japanese. I do that in a way. I go to clubs and see all the beautiful women in them and the handsome young Japanese men there, too. I, always, take condoms to clubs with me. Why? I go to a Japanese man and ask, “where is your woman?” If he says he doesn’t have one I do one of two things. I hand him condom and tell him to go to the woman he likes and ask, ” Do you want to use this, condom, with me?” or I tell to buy me a drink, if I get a girl for him.
  I ask him what kind of woman he wants then we go in search for his dream. When I find the one he wants, I introduce and start a conversation for them, give him condom and be on my way. If things go right, I don’t have to find them. They find me and buy my drink and that is it. Both ways work! The problem in Japan is like the problem in America, every one thinks they know what is going on and they don’t. Leo, you are a racist. Is General Powell lower than a pig. Your ignorance is unbelievable. Racism started because white people found a way to profit from free labor and was able to use their own white poor people, that they should have been paying to do the work, to police The Great African Man and Woman. I hope that you are not married to a Japanese. Do you know what white people say of them. White people are in power because they, the ones that have the money, power and the fools with the knowledge to make weapons to keep them in power. That is it. If the world would rather die than to fight like what happened in Spain, White power holders would go crazy. Oh, least I forget, just because you may be white don’t think you would have been invited to King James’ court for dinner. He didn’t care about his own people. Queen Elizabeth didn’t either. You are a slave and you don’t even know it. If you are not white, You still are a slave because you live by the breathe that comes out of those power holding people. I will not join you in the name calling of an entire group. You need to read about our Black History before slavery, then may be you will learn something about your culture.

  This conversation is great. The problem is that which one of us on is worth anything. I mean who of use makes ¥10,000,000 per year? Who is in the government? Who really walk the talk, instead of talk the walk? Probably none of us, I was short ¥3,000,000 of reaching that mark.

  The whole thing is that none of us are qualified to judge him. Even God impregnated Mary. The Bible says that Jesus was made just like the rest of us was made. UUUMMM? Sex is good. Playboy, Hustler and the rest made money from sex. All of you are just haters. What is there to be ashamed of about having sex? That is your problems. You think Japanese woman are weak. They are not weak. They are pimps and players. They stay home collect your pay give you an allowance, Hang out all day with who knows who, buy brand name items and probably got most, if not all of you so called men on a sex schedule. They are not stupid. Most of you are so stupid in your thinking. The beauty of it is that these women let you think that way. It is crazy. Then you have “half” child and don’t know how to handle those kids problems they face when they go to school with “whole Japanese kids.

  Stefhen, “be fruitful and multiply” that is a straight commandment from God. Please don’t make fools of yourselves in your responses, if there are any. God does not need you to protect him. He has been around for a while. I am sure She, can handle herself. The way the world is, God has to be a woman. 99% the other 1% are either dead or in jail.

  It has nothing to do with sex and who you have sex with. The problem is that people, religious, governmental, player haters, bitch-made-niggas ( black, brown, red and yellow and white), are too busy sticking their noses in other peoples business. We are human.
  Stop telling people how their emotions and involuntary senses should act. The are involuntary so their is not control over them. Sex is vital! For fun and pro-creation!
  Japan’s society will not be effected by his book. If anything he will be like Billy’s Boot Camp. Make people feel good about being themselves, collect that money and fade into history. That is it.

  Tony, I am really embarrassed that you thought that I was a woman. You only solidify the point of the “said” Black Man’s literacy Myth. Please, read carefully.

  Sex it a good thing. Even Martin Luther King was fucking white women will he was marching for Equal Rights. How many of you knew that? It doesn’t matter Black and Whites and everyone were doing each other, since, after the first light-skinned person was born and became of age.

  You should write about how these Japanese woman make fools of the foreign men. Personal interviews and write what these fools say. I bet that everyone of them will say that they feel in love with the vagina! P W’d!

  Reread what Naoki wrote. You are disappointed because you don’t have the guts to be human like Stefhen.

  Don’t be so hard on yourselves. We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.
  Jesus came and died on the cross for the sexfull and the sexless, the lower than pigs Black race, and even Leo (who race is obviously above a pig – the bible never said a pig came short, it said not to eat it because it is a swindler, loves to eat and fu%$k.

  So, coming short of the characteristics of a pig is still respectful in my eyes. What do you think Leo. We know the results of your peoples sexual acts. Disease. Disease and Disease that wiped out millions of people.

  Write on Stefhen. Write on.

  Oh, to get caught up in the name calling Stefhen. Let Tony have is say, because if Leo is a white person, we know damn well he wouldn’t talk like that to Leo like that.

  Peace – No matter what is going on in the would, always be a peace in your mind.

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Mar 31st at 3:38 pm

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  NARUMI AND NAOKI thank you for your positive words, especially since youre both japanese. this is the kind of positive dialogue im interested in stimulating; how the problems in societies can be solved, especially the problems regarding equality between the sexes. contrary to popular belief, my book is not just about fucking in japan. its about my journey since childhood, through japan like suicidal ideation and depression. through psychotherapy, education, travel and how i actually became self actualised in japan. it is the journey of an addict, a sex addict with a brain. and i thank you for appreciating it.

  yes, i quite like japan, in fact so much so, im dreading returing to the US next month. if i were able to get my MBA here and more importantly, if my wife didnt abhor the idea of returning to japan, i would stay (and of course screw myself in a coma). but i quite like japan, it has so much potential to be livable. but as i told my wife, ” japan hates women and it hates foreigners. youre a woman, im a foreigner, hence we are much better off in america.” my wife has far more opportunities to pursue her goals in the US than she or I do to do so in Japan.

  but thanks very much, you guys get it.

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Mar 31st at 5:54 pm

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  Okay Duncan, this will be my last post to you because your comments are tiresome to read through. Never have I known a man to mix sex, religion, god, and black into one long and poorly defined post. Really ! Give it rest for your readers sake.

  For one, I didn’t think you were a woman, I think much more highly of them that’s why. Another thing, sex is natural. No one here on this board, including myself, are arguing against sex. Nobody ! Is that clear enough for you ? Not all of us suffer from selective reading disorder. Sex is good, sex is natural.

  The reason why I am attacking this publication is because it’s defaming and slanderous to Japanese women in general. Another reason is because Stefan has no credibility, and like all African Americans we have no grounds to stand on when we are criticizing others for things our own people fail in miserably.

  Maybe you can explain to your readership why 80% of all African American families are without fathers. Or maybe you can explain why our people fill up the jail houses and the crack houses in many of our major American cities ? Maybe you can explain why our people have the highest drop out and illiteracy rates in the United States of America. How about trying to explain why our people, the world over, live in abject poverty and why our people are exploited the most…? Can you explain that Einstein ? No…because your head is so far up Stefan’s caboose that you can’t even think nor write clearly.

  Stefan is a sexual predator who spreads STD’s in Japan ! And then has the gall to attack Japan, which he claims is the most beautiful country in the world, with his lies and misconceptions and then fools like you fall for his duplicity because you have absolutely no respect for the host country and not an inkling of common sense. You are a shame to your own African American race. (“Give a n%#ga a passport and let him go make some babies”) because he’s too irresponsible to father his own back in his own damn country.

  I’m done with you, don’t talk to me anymore.

  by: Tony Alexander, Mar 31st at 6:29 pm

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  Stefhan, you and I spoke on MySpace and I read excerpts on there.
  To those who disagree with him: That is your prerogitive, but it does not make his words and experiences untrue. As a Black man, I thoroughly enjoyed my time in Japan and loved quite a few women, most of whom had never been with a “gaijin” let alone a black man. Japan is a country that does not love its own women and does everything to put them into a box.
  A woman coming from such an environment upong meeting a man that tells her she has worth and is beautiful and shows her affection begins to flower and grow as a person and because said woman feels empowered by these words, shows her own affection. It’s human nature at a basic level. If women were not neglected by men in Japan, this book could not be written.
  PEACE

  by: Chuck W, Apr 1st at 5:51 am

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  Tony, you really are off track. If you want to the answers concerning blacks, listen to Obama’s speech. “A Perfect Union”. He is qualified and states the reasons, but it is about 37 minutes long. Will that be too long for you to listen. The Bible is full of sex, religion, god and blacks. Don’t you read it.

  I have not attacked you personally. I have disagreed with some of things you wrote. Don’t attack me personally. You have Typing errors in your posts also.

  There are many xxx sites on the net displaying Japanese women. Do you attack them? You may want to consider criticizing him constructively. That is what I have been saying. You are going about it in the wrong way.

  Your attacks are like a house divided against itself. What is wrong with having lots of sex, unless you are a Christian. If you are a Christian then you should get on your knees and pray for him. I am not falling for anything. I love Japan, because it is part of “Our Mother Earth”, I love Japanese people, because they came from us. I love all and respect all. Why don’t you read my posts.

  YOU ARE GOING ABOUT IT THE WRONG WAY!

  Truthfully, sex is boring in Japan. I like it on the wild side. You should consider the fact that there are others that may challenge you too. How many Black Children have you fathered with a black woman? Your comments are not achieving anything. You don’t want to talk to me anymore. We are commenting. Don’t run away. I am not attacking you. I get offended when people attack my people inappropriately. This is what you are doing? If you are so sensitive, then attack to correct of don’t read my posts.

  Peace

  It is all good. Don’t get worked up over this.

  I will have to say, again, your questions about Blacks in America are not appropriate! We are in that position, because we choose to accept change at a slow pace, than to die.

  “Give e freedom or Give me death” do you know who said that?

  Help your brother, don’t destroy him.

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Apr 1st at 8:16 am

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  I just reread yo comment Tony. You need help. You seem to suffer from self hate or at least self-realization. What does Stefhen’s book and African Americans have in common.

  At least The Black Jamaicans had enough sense to fight slavery and they won. He has credibility. Jamaicans are people we should be looking up too. They are truly free. We African-Americans are not in the same arena.

  Stefhen may or may not bee right or wrong, but his book will generate money to help our economy, if it gets the right attention.

  Stefhen is not African-American. Maybe Jamaican-American. Their society is one we need to study. You really should criticize constructively.
  Then again, there are more people agreeing then disagreeing with him.

  It would be very interesting to see what you and his relationship really is. Anyway, Stefhen in America we have the right to pursue happiness. Go get yours!

  by: Ralph Duncans Jr, Apr 1st at 9:00 am

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  On Chuck,

  This is not America, this is Japan. No, Japan does not have to change in order that Japanese women can have more freedom. Like I stated before, many Japanese women are very happy being in their current social and economic position. They are happy with the old way because for them it has worked for centuries and it’s part of the cultural and spiritual make up of the country. You blacks just want to ruin everything for this country !

  by: Tony, Apr 1st at 11:57 am

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  SEX IN JAPAN. video produced by the BBC. http://youtube.com/watch?v=kX1mpCokiYU

  by: Stefhen Bryan, Apr 1st at 1:58 pm

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